Human is associated with certain feelings. In Fact Human is made of feelings. It is simply not possible for Human to live without feelings.
All the human feelings from Anger, Fear, Happiness and sorrow represent our human behavior. These feeling make us Imperfect but we are actually born to be imperfect.
Out of all these, Anger is the worst human imperfection. Anger is a feeling, which is produced upon our reaction to thought.
Anger is an imperfection, which could take our loved ones far away from us. It is an imperfection, which could lead us to utter loneliness.
Anger is like a fire, which could burn the mystical aspect, associated with human personality. It could burn the feeling of divine love inside human heart.
Since we are human, it is simply not possible to live without an intense feeling like anger. Having anger does not lead to misery but not being aware of moments of anger leads to misery.
Anger is temporary whereas Love is permanent.
Getting lost in the moment of anger is the reason of suffering. If one is capable to accept and appreciate moments of anger, it could be transformed into divine feeling of love.
Human must realize that reacting to anger is not going to solve any misery. It could only lead to more misery. We must realize that moment of anger is just temporary to make us understand that we are born to be imperfect.
Human should not get lost in imperfection otherwise it becomes impossible to touch perfection. We are definitely not born to absorb anger but we are born to accept anger.
Only in utter acceptance and appreciation of anger, one could feel the divine love, human is born with inside his heart and until one feels the divine love, One could not open heart enough to receive miracles that life offers.
It’s been more than a year ago when I started feeling some mystical phenomena’s inside my body. It’s been more than a year since I quit job to find if there was something more to my robotic life.
In my hope to find the meaning of life to some deeper extent, I started travelling. Since I was born in India and India is considered land of mystics, I went to India to understand something as mystical as life.
While travelling in India, I met so many monks and sadhus. I was surprised that those monks have quit worldly pleasures in search of something mystical.
It was even more surprising to me when I came to know that those monks were forcing to be celibate in hope to get enlightenment.
I already realized that celibacy could never be forced. I realized that celibacy is not about having no sex but celibacy is all about overcoming desire of sex.
One who is filled with love is a celibate in my eyes. It does not matter if such person indulges in sexual activities or not.
One of the reasons I got spiritually awakened was since I never repressed any act in my life. Awakening is a pure result of freedom. No one in this universe could become aware of spiritual awakening by repressing natural act like sex.
After unlocking my own inborn wisdom, I realized that one who has overcome the desire of sex is only capable to perform sex out of love. One who performs sex out of love is really a celibate in my eyes
Celibacy is not about repression but freedom
I wanted to tell those monks that enlightenment is not a result of celibacy but celibacy could be a result of enlightenment. I wanted to explain them that the true definition of celibacy but I felt hopeless in unconditioning human mind.
Even though I never judge human since I love human imperfection so much, but somewhere in my heart I felt pity for those monks who were forcing to be celibate to attain something mystical in life.
I hope one-day humanity would understand the true meaning behind the teachings of enlightened people like Buddha.
I hope one-day humanity would understand that Buddha was pointing towards love but not misery. Surely one-day humanity would understand that Buddha was pointing towards freedom not repression.